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Matthew 19 - 21 - "Divorce & Marriage And Other Lessons"

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Today’s passage begins with the religious leaders (who doubt He’s the Messiah they’ve been looking for) in an attempt to trap him with a delicate question. They’re hatred for Jesus is growing day by day as He heals everyone who comes to Him. The crowd is starting to believe He is the Messiah, and the relisious leaders (who’ve basically turned into political pundits) are growing increasingly nervous!

They trap Him over the issue of “divorce.”  Divorce can seem like a delicate issue, but in today’s passage Jesus makes the concept of marriage and divorce very plain.  In fact, here’s how plain it is.

1. In marriage, God sees each married couple as “one”.  I realize we, as humas, see ourselves as two individuals striving to get along. But, God sees each marriage as a single unit.  When a husband and wife decide to tie the knot, they have (on their own volition) become one in God’s sight.

2.  When a couple decides to get married, God sees it as Him joining them together. Notice what Jesus said in verse 6 – “Since they are no longer two but one, let no one split apart what God has joined together.” 

3.  Woe to the person who gets involved in a marriage relationship and has an affair with one of them! Jesus clearly says, “let no one split apart what God has joined together.”  If you’re involved with a married person, watch out!  You are fighting against God’s will.  You will find yourself on the need for discipline from God.  Your life will be filled with struggle and frustrations. You can’t fight against God and win!!!

4.  Divorce was granted by Moses ONLY because of the hardness and wickedness of man’s heart.  It was a concession Moses made.  This is NOT what God originally intended for marriage!

5.  Marriage (vs.6-7) was designed by God to be a lifetime mutual connection.  In the book of Jeremiah, God tells us He “hates divorce.”  God’s original intention is for marriage to be a permanent relationship. It’s only because of our selfish desires that we either a person who’s NOT right for us, NOT a believer, or our willingness to jump out of a marriage.  I realize there are a number of issues that make my previous statement very simplistic, but this is what Jesus was saying.

6.  Divorce and remarriage is (in God’s sight) adultery…unless the divorce was due to infidelity from one of the partners.

Throughout the rest of Chapter 19, we learn a remarkable lesson!  A rich man is wanting assurance that he has eternal life when he dies.  So, he asks Jesus what he must do to inherit eternal life.  After a brief discussion, Jesus tells him to sell ALL that he has (probably millions of dollars worth of assets in today’s dollars) and to follow Him.  Unfortunately, the young man wasn’t willing to go that far with Jesus! 

Few people are willing to give up everything for Jesus.  Remember, we just read a couple of days ago that the Kingdom of Heaven was like a “treasure hidden in a field” or a “pearl of great price” whereby the men who found these things sold out everything they had to obtain the field of treasure and the pearl of great price!  Jesus is that field of treasure and pearl of great price. Salvation in Jesus Christ means giving up everything to follow Him!

Are you willing to give up every last dollar or asset for Him?  If not….where is your heart?  Are you really ALL IN or straddling the fence like this young man?

In Chapter 20, we learn 4 great lessons as well:

1. Jesus shows His mercy!  In 20:1-16, we see the amazing story of the mercy and goodness of God. The parable is designed to tell us a couple of things:

-  Whether you’ve been a Christian for 50 years or only a few minutes before you die, we ALL get to receive God’s greatest gift – eternal life!!!

- We often protest the way God works because of our pride and sinfulness.  But, we should ALL be glad of His mercy and grace. He can do with us whatever He wants to do – we are His! And we don’t have any right to complain. God is a gracious and loving and merciful God.

2.  Jesus clearly tells His disciples that very soon He’ll be taken by the Roman army and crucified, but that 3 days later He will rise from the grave.  Jesus could NOT have been any clearer. However, as we will read in future chapters, this message was clearly forgotten until after His resurrection.

How many times do we hear a message from a preacher about God’s truth, but forget it?  Then we go on living without remember God’s truth.

3.  Jesus taught that the greatest among ALL believers will be the ones who are humble and serve Him with all of their might.

4.  In 20:34, I love how the Bible teaches “Jesus felt sorry for them.”  This was in regard to two blind men who begged Him to heal them.  Listen…Jesus understands our pain and feels deeply our hurts and frustrations!  He wants to heal us!  Are you going to Him for that and trusting Him to do so?

Again, Jesus goes on in chapter 21 with more great lessons on life.

For example, He confronts the religious leaders with a powerful parable. In verses 33-42, Jesus tells the story of a landowner who leases out the farm to some ranch hands.  These ranch hands had full control. But they were wicked and greedy ranch hands.  Whenever the land owner sent out one of his assistants to review how they were doing, these ranch hands would beat them up. So, finally, the landowner sends his only son thinking they would respect his son. But they killed him!

The religious leaders realized this parable was told about them, and got furious!  Jesus was trying to tell them, “Hey, this world and the good news of my salvation is mine, and I entrusted you with it.  However, when I sent my prophets, you beat them up and cast them out!  Now, that I’ve sent my only Son (Jesus), you kill him!”  I’m sure this sealed the deal for the religious leaders to find some way to kill Jesus. They couldn’t stand up to His wisdom and power!

There are so many lessons, but we’ll have to stop here.  What was the most powerful lesson you received from today’s study of the scriptures?


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